Long Beach Island... she's truly majestic, isn't she? Eighteen miles of sandy white beaches with Old Barney standing guard at her North. She's a siren- her salt air and sea breeze to call us back summer after summer. And every visit to her feels better than the last.
Most people who visit Long Beach Island use the words “Barnegat Bay” as a catch-all for every stretch of water between the mainland and the island. And honestly, it’s hard to blame them — when you’re crossing the Route 72 bridge with the windows down and the salt air hitting you for the first time all week, the last thing on your mind is hydrological boundaries.
But the water beneath that bridge? That’s not Barnegat Bay. That’s Manahawkin Bay. And the distinction matters more than most people realize — not just geographically, but historically, ecologically, and in the way these waters have shaped life on this island for centuries.
Here’s the lay of the land — or, more accurately, the lay of the water.
The entire stretch between the Jersey Shore mainland and the barrier islands is technically the Barnegat Bay–Little Egg Harbor Estuary, a lagoonal system that runs nearly 44 miles along the Atlantic coast of Ocean County. Within that system sit three distinct bodies of water: Barnegat Bay to the north, Manahawkin Bay in the middle, and Little Egg Harbor to the south. They’re connected, they share tidal flows, and they function as a single ecosystem. But they are not the same body of water.
Think of it like this: Barnegat Bay is the big sibling. Manahawkin Bay is the quieter middle child. And Little Egg Harbor is the one who moved south and doesn’t get nearly enough credit.
The boundary between Barnegat Bay and Manahawkin Bay isn’t marked with a buoy or painted on the water. But the generally accepted dividing line runs along the area near the Route 72 causeway — roughly where Barnegat Bay narrows as it approaches the bridge from the north. North of Route 72, you’re in Barnegat Bay. Cross under the bridge heading south, and you’re in Manahawkin Bay waters.
Manahawkin Bay stretches about four miles in a north-south direction, with the mainland of Stafford Township — including the community of Manahawkin — to the west and Long Beach Island to the east. It’s relatively narrow, averaging one to two miles wide, with a total surface area of roughly 3.6 square miles. The Intracoastal Waterway threads through it, providing the main navigable channel, but the bay is shallow — averaging less than seven feet deep, with some areas near the marshes dropping to less than three feet at low tide.
To the south, Manahawkin Bay transitions into Little Egg Harbor, another shallow estuary that opens up considerably as the barrier island curves toward its southern tip at Holgate.
And then there’s Great Bay.
If Manahawkin Bay is the quiet middle child, Great Bay is the wild cousin who lives just around the bend. Located to the south and southwest, Great Bay sits in both Ocean and Atlantic Counties, roughly ten miles north of Atlantic City and about five and a half miles southwest of Beach Haven. The Mullica River flows into it, forming one of the most ecologically significant estuary systems on the entire northeastern seaboard — the Mullica River–Great Bay Estuary.
Great Bay connects to the Atlantic Ocean through Little Egg Inlet, and together with Little Egg Harbor, it forms the southern boundary of the broader waterway system that flanks Long Beach Island. The bay averages about five feet in depth, and its waters support extensive eelgrass beds and submerged aquatic vegetation — an indicator of just how clean and undisturbed these waters remain.
In fact, Great Bay is considered one of the least-disturbed marine wetland habitats in the entire northeastern United States. While Barnegat Bay to the north has faced well-documented challenges with nitrogen runoff, algal blooms, and declining water quality, Great Bay has remained remarkably pristine — largely because the Mullica River watershed is dominated by Pine Barrens forest, which filters water naturally through sandy, acidic soils before it reaches the estuary.
Little Egg Harbor Township is the only community in Ocean County that shares a coastline with both the Barnegat Bay system and Great Bay, making it a unique crossroads between two very different marine environments.
Barnegat Bay is the name most people know — and for good reason. It’s the largest of the three sub-bays, stretching roughly 30 miles along the coast, separated from the Atlantic Ocean by the Island Beach peninsula to the north and Long Beach Island to the south.
The bay’s history reaches back to 1609, when Henry Hudson sailed past and described what he saw as a great lake of water with many shoals and breaking seas at its mouth. Five years later, Dutch explorers gave it the name “Barendegat” — “Inlet of the Breakers” — a reference to the turbulent waters of Barnegat Inlet.
During the American Revolution, the bay served as a refuge for American privateers who used the shallow, shifting channels to evade British warships. By the 19th century, Toms River had grown into a significant whaling port, and the bay became a center for commercial fishing that sustained generations of baymen and their families.
The bay also found its way into popular culture. E.B. White set one of his Preposterous Parables in Barnegat Bay. And Frankie Valli — a Jersey boy to his core — immortalized the bay in his 1975 number-one hit with a reference to walking home over Barnegat Bridge and Bay.
Today, three bridges cross Barnegat Bay: the Mantoloking Bridge connecting Brick Township to Mantoloking, and the Thomas A. Mathis and J. Stanley Tunney Bridges from Toms River to Ortley Beach. The bay is part of the Atlantic Intracoastal Waterway and connects northward to the Point Pleasant Canal.
Manahawkin Bay doesn’t have the name recognition of its northern neighbor, but its story runs just as deep.
The name “Manahawkin” itself comes from the Lenape language. For generations, it was understood to mean “land of good corn.” More recent scholarship has suggested a translation closer to “fertile land sloping into the water” — which, if you’ve ever stood on the western shore and watched the marshes ease into the bay at low tide, feels far more accurate.
The Lenape — specifically the Unalachtigo subtribe — inhabited this coastal region for more than 10,000 years. They traveled established trails from the interior forests to the shore each summer, harvesting oysters, clams, and fish from the bay’s estuarine waters using spears, nets, and weirs. Shell middens along the mainland shore tell the story of a people who understood these waters intimately, long before anyone thought to draw a map.
European settlement came early. By 1758, the Free Church of Manahawkin was established — the first church in what would become Ocean County. Early settlers clustered near the bay or along the cedar swamps, building an economy around clamming, oystering, boat building, and cedar cutting. The waterways were everything — the means of moving people and product in a region where roads were slow to come.
The bay also saw its share of conflict. During the American Revolution, the Manahawkin area became a flashpoint for New Jersey’s bitter internal civil war between Patriots and Loyalists. The Manahawkin Skirmish of December 1781, led by the notorious Loyalist Captain John Bacon, took place near the Old Manahawkin Baptist Church. And the region may hold the distinction of hosting the last recorded land battle of the Revolution, at Cedar Bridge Tavern in December 1782.
By the mid-1800s, the oystering industry around Manahawkin Bay was booming. Baymen worked the shallow waters, supplying oysters that became renowned in the markets of New York and Philadelphia. Boat builders, shuckers, and fishermen built their lives around the rhythm of the tides. It was hard work, governed by the seasons, and it created a culture of self-reliance and deep connection to the water that still echoes in the communities along these shores.
The bay’s role shifted again in the 20th century. The Pennsylvania Railroad connected Long Beach Island through Manahawkin from 1886 to 1935. The first automobile bridge to LBI was built through Stafford Township in 1914. And when the Beach Haven West lagoon development began in 1945 — eventually becoming the largest lagoon development in New Jersey — Manahawkin Bay moved from a working waterway to the front porch of a growing shore community.
Today, you cross it every time you take the causeway to LBI. The Manahawkin Bay Bridge — officially the Dorland J. Henderson Memorial Bridge — carries Route 72 over the water, its “String of Pearls” lights glowing against the dark bay on summer nights. It is, for most visitors, the first and last thing they see of the bay. But what lies beneath and beyond that bridge is a waterway with a story far older than the road that crosses it.
Knowing the difference between these bays isn’t just trivia for boaters and fishermen (though they’ll certainly appreciate it). It’s about understanding the place you love — or the place you’re just starting to fall for.
Barnegat Bay, Manahawkin Bay, Little Egg Harbor, and Great Bay are all part of the same interconnected system, but each has its own character, its own history, and its own ecological story. The more you understand the water, the more you understand the island it surrounds.
And next time you’re crossing the causeway with the windows down, you’ll know exactly which bay is catching the light.
See you over the bridge.
Sources & Further Reading
– Barnegat Bay, Wikipedia — History, geography, and cultural references for Barnegat Bay.
– Manahawkin Bay, Grokipedia — Detailed overview of Manahawkin Bay’s ecology, boundaries, and colonial history.
– Great Bay (New Jersey), Wikipedia — The Mullica River–Great Bay estuary and its ecological significance.
– History of Stafford Township, Stafford Township, NJ — Lenape origins, the meaning of “Manahawkin,” Revolutionary War conflicts, and early industry.
– The Barnegat Bay Watershed, Barnegatbay.org — The connected estuary system and watershed ecology.
– About Barnegat Bay, Barnegat Bay Shellfish — The Barnegat Bay Complex and its three sub-bays.
– From Bogs to Beaches: A Brief History of Industry in Manahawkin, Patch — Cedar industry, oystering, and the railroad era in Stafford Township.
– Little Egg Harbor, The Real New Jersey — Little Egg Harbor’s unique position between Barnegat Bay and Great Bay.
– Manahawkin Bay Bridge, Wikipedia — The Dorland J. Henderson Memorial Bridge and its history.
Long Beach Island... she's truly
majestic, isn't she? Eighteen miles of sandy white beaches with
Old Barney standing guard at her North. She's a siren- her salt
air and sea breeze to call us back summer
after summer. And every visit to
her feels better than the last.
TOp Stories
Here’s a confession that will either make you trust me or question everything: some of my favorite days on Long Beach Island have been gray ones.
Not the sun-drenched, salt-rimmed, golden-hour days that fill your camera roll. The other kind. The ones where the sky drops low over the bay and the island gets quiet enough to hear itself think. When the beach empties out and the real LBI — the one that’s been here since before the boardwalk and the beach badges — steps forward.
Memorial Day Weekend is the unofficial start of summer, and if the 2026 installment decides to welcome you with a little rain, consider it a gift. Because this island has more to offer than a tan line, and a wet weekend might be the best way to prove it.
Here’s your rainy-day playbook. Not the tourist list. The other list.
Start your Saturday morning at The Dune Market in Beach Haven — the kind of shop that feels like someone’s beautifully curated beach cottage, because it basically is. Owner Emily Raleigh built this place around the idea of coastal living done with intention: ethically sourced home goods, self-care products, and a bookshop section that could keep you browsing for an hour.
On Saturday, May 24th, from 10am to noon, The Dune Market is hosting a book signing with New Jersey journalist Francesca Cocchi, whose debut novel, Have a Great Summer, will be released that same week. It’s a dual-timeline Jersey Shore romance — the kind of book that was practically written for reading on a screened-in porch while it pours outside. Cocchi grew up down the shore in Monmouth County, wrote for NBC’s TODAY and Food Network Magazine, and poured all of that coastal nostalgia into her first novel. If you’re looking for this summer’s beach read that takes place around the Jersey Shore, this is where you pick it up — signed, from the author, in a shop that smells like sea salt and candle wax.
And if one book isn’t enough to get you through a rainy weekend — it won’t be — we put together our picks for the season: 7 Must-Read Books for Summer 2026 (https://movemetolbi.com/161/7-must-read-books-for-summer-2026/). These are the only new releases worth sand in our spines, earning a spot in our beach bag this summer.
The Dune Market · 414 N Bay Ave, Suite D, Beach Haven · Saturday 5/24, 10am–12pm
Here’s something most people don’t realize: the lighthouse climb is entirely indoors. All 217 steps of it. So while everyone else is staring at the rain from their rental, you can be standing at the top of Barnegat Lighthouse watching the storm roll across the inlet. It’s one of the most dramatic views on the island, and it’s arguably better in bad weather — the clouds stacking over Island Beach State Park, the whitecaps crashing against the jetty, the whole scene looking like something out of a maritime painting.
The lighthouse is open daily starting Memorial Day Weekend, 9am to 3pm. Admission is just a few dollars. And if the stairs aren’t your thing, the Interpretive Center at the base has live camera feeds from the top, plus exhibits on the lighthouse’s history going back to 1859.
While you’re up in Barnegat Light, walk the Maritime Forest Trail — a short loop through one of the last remaining patches of maritime forest on LBI. A little rain makes it feel ancient.
Barnegat Lighthouse State Park · Broadway & the Bay, Barnegat Light
Surflight Theatre has been putting on shows in Beach Haven since 1950, making it one of the longest-running professional theaters on the Jersey Shore. This year they’re opening their 77th season — seventy-seventh — with A Grand Night for Singing, a Rodgers & Hammerstein revue that pulls from the full catalog. It’s the kind of thing that feels like it belongs on a rainy island night: intimate, old-school, and unapologetically theatrical.
Show times over Memorial Day Weekend include Friday 5/23 at 8pm, Saturday 5/24 at 2pm and 8pm, and additional performances running through early June. Grab tickets ASAP — this place has a loyal following and a 450-seat house that fills fast.
Surflight Theatre · 201 Engleside Ave, Beach Haven · surflight.org · (609) 492-9477
LBI has a handful of small museums that punch well above their weight, and a rainy afternoon is the perfect excuse to finally walk through the door.
The LBI Historical Museum at 129 Engleside Ave in Beach Haven is housed in a former church built in 1882. (Fun fact: I got married there — so I’m a little biased, but trust me on this one.) The exhibits trace the island’s arc from its earliest inhabitants through the Gilded Age resort era, shipwrecks, and the quirky summer culture that defines this place. This season, check out their new exhibit, Celebrating Summer Fun 1950–1980 — a look back at the LBI summers your parents and grandparents knew. There’s also a restored bayman’s cottage inside, scavenger hunts for the kids, and a gift shop worth browsing. Admission is $5.
Up in Barnegat Light, the Barnegat Light Museum is small but rich — a single room packed with artifacts and photographs that chronicle LBI’s past. Pair it with the lighthouse climb and you’ve got a full morning on the north end.
And in Beach Haven, the NJ Maritime Museum is a hidden gem for anyone who’s ever wondered about the shipwrecks off this coast. Detailed exhibits on dive recoveries, the resort industry, and the maritime heritage of the Jersey Shore. The volunteers are passionate and will talk your ear off in the best way.
The Long Beach Island Foundation of the Arts and Sciences sits on 22 acres in Loveladies, and it’s one of the most quietly special places on the island. Founded in 1948 by Boris Blai — a sculptor who studied under Rodin and went on to found the Tyler School of Art at Temple — the LBIF has been fostering creativity on this sandbar for nearly eight decades.
Over Memorial Day Weekend, the Works on Paper national juried exhibition will be on view in the gallery. This year’s juror is Joanna Sheers Seidenstein, a curator at The Metropolitan Museum of Art. The gallery space itself is worth the trip — a mid-century modern building with vaulted ceilings and natural light, the kind of room that makes you slow down.
The LBIF also hosts art classes, yoga sessions, and community programs throughout the season. Check their calendar before you go — you might stumble into something unexpected.
LBIF · 120 Long Beach Blvd, Loveladies · lbifoundation.org
When the sky is gray and you’ve got nowhere to be, a brewery is exactly where you want to end up.
Ship Bottom Brewery in Beach Haven brews everything on-site and keeps a rotating tap list that ranges from classic IPAs to some genuinely creative experiments. Their indoor taproom is a solid rainy-day landing spot, and this Memorial Day Weekend they’ve got live music every day from Friday through Monday — so even if you can’t sit on the beach, you can still have the soundtrack. Keep an eye on their socials for the lineup.
If you’re willing to hop off the island, Manafirkin Brewing Company is just across the causeway with a dog-friendly taproom and a solid rotation of stouts and sours. Grab a pretzel platter from next door and settle in.
And if you’re more of a coffee person, grab a pour-over and park yourself somewhere cozy. LBI has more good coffee than it gets credit for — we ranked our favorites in Our Top 9 Coffee Spots on LBI for Summer 2026 (https://movemetolbi.com/103/our-top-9-coffee-spots-on-lbi-for-summer-2026/).
Beach Haven’s shopping district doesn’t shut down when it rains — it gets better. Bay Village and Schooner’s Wharf are connected by covered walkways, which means you can bounce between boutiques, gift shops, and candy stores without getting soaked.
Beyond Bay Village, the island is dotted with independent shops worth a slow browse: Surf City 5 & 10 has been a fixture since 1952, Island Gypsy has the kind of effortless beach style that makes you rethink your entire closet, and if you’ve got kids in tow, Sugar Kingdom’s 2,500 candy varieties will buy you at least an hour of peace.
Rain on a family vacation doesn’t have to mean cabin fever. LBI’s arcades have been saving rainy days for decades.
Fantasy Island in Beach Haven has a massive indoor arcade alongside its amusement rides. Our Endless Summer in Ship Bottom is a classic — skee-ball, claw machines, and the satisfying chaos of ticket redemption. And if your crew is competitive, Escape LBI offers three themed escape rooms that’ll keep everyone too focused to notice the weather.
For the bowlers: Thunderbird Lanes is just off the island, it’s BYOB, and it’s the kind of low-key, high-fun activity that turns a washout into the best night of the trip.
Or maybe the best rainy-day move is the simplest one: stay in. Pull out a board game, open a bottle of wine, and let the rain on the roof do the rest. If you need something to read, we’ve got you — our 7 Must-Read Books for Summer 2026 (https://movemetolbi.com/161/7-must-read-books-for-summer-2026/) list was made for exactly this kind of afternoon.
Sometimes the island is trying to tell you something. Slow down. You’re already here.
There’s a version of Memorial Day Weekend that’s all about the beach — and when the sun’s out, that version is glorious. But there’s another version. The one where you slow down, duck into places you’ve driven past a hundred times, and discover that this island has layers you didn’t know about.
Rain doesn’t ruin a weekend on LBI. It just shows you a different island. A quieter one. A deeper one. The one the regulars know.
So if the forecast says rain this Memorial Day Weekend, don’t change your plans. Just change your expectations. You might find that the island you love has a whole other side — and it’s been waiting for a gray sky to introduce itself.
See you over the bridge.
The Dune Market: https://thedunemarket.com
Francesca Cocchi, Have a Great Summer (Kensington Books, May 2026): https://www.francescacocchi.com
SOBAR: 7 Must-Read Books for Summer 2026
SOBAR: Our Top 9 Coffee Spots on LBI for Summer 2026
Barnegat Lighthouse State Park
Surflight Theatre, 77th Season https://surflight.org
Long Beach Island Foundation of the Arts & Sciences https://lbifoundation.org
LBI Historical Museum: 129 Engleside Ave, Beach Haven https://www.lbihistoricalmuseum.org/
NJ Maritime Museum, Beach Haven: 528 Dock Rd, Beach Haven https://njmaritimemuseum.org/
Ship Bottom Brewery: https://shipbottombrewery.com
There’s a particular kind of magic that happens when the right story meets the right stretch of sand. The tide does its thing, the umbrella holds, and the pages practically turn themselves. This summer’s crop of new releases is stacked — from friends-to-lovers romances set in coastal paradise to atmospheric Irish mysteries, feel-good golf fables, and one memoir that will stop you mid-chapter and make you look up at the horizon for a minute.
We curated this list the way we curate everything around here: with intention. These aren’t just new — they’re good. The kind of books you press into a friend’s hands and say, “trust me.” Every title released between March and May 2026, with a couple still warm off the press.
Grab your tote. Let’s go.
Editor’s Note: All Goodreads ratings are as of May 17, 2026.

Contemporary Romance / Beach Read
Carley Fortune is back, and if you’ve loved her previous summer novels, this one might be her best yet. Frankie and George have been best friends since they were eight years old — passionate, headstrong, and constantly clashing their way back together. When Frankie’s fiancé walks out the morning after their wedding weekend, she does the only logical thing: takes George on her honeymoon to Tofino, British Columbia, instead.
What unfolds over one week in paradise is a story about friendship that bends under the weight of something bigger, about a woman reckoning with who she is at thirty, and about the terrifying moment when “just friends” stops being enough. Fortune writes settings that feel like their own characters, and Tofino is no exception — you’ll practically taste the salt air. Kirkus gave it a starred review, calling it a powerfully strong romance for readers who like love stories full of torment and passion.
For fans of: Emily Henry, the friends-to-lovers trope, and crying happy tears on a beach towel.

Contemporary Romance / Beach Read
Here’s your sleeper hit of the summer. Chassity Evans is a lifestyle creative who splits her time between Charleston and Harbour Island in the Bahamas, and her debut novel reads exactly like what happens when someone writes about a place they know in their bones. Lucy, a Charleston-based artist, inherits her grandmother’s beloved island house and heads to Harbour Island for a summer of sorting through what comes next. What she doesn’t expect: running into the man who once broke her heart, and meeting a handsome new songwriter who complicates everything.
This is transportive, sun-drenched, and deeply personal — the kind of book where you can feel the author writing about real establishments and corners of the island she loves. It’s been described as effervescent and cozy, and honestly, it’s the beach read equivalent of that first sip of something cold after a long, hot afternoon.
For fans of: Elin Hilderbrand’s island settings, second-chance romance, and books that make you immediately search for flights.

Thriller / Mystery
Tana French closes out her beloved Cal Hooper trilogy with the kind of quiet devastation that stays with you for weeks. In the remote Irish village of Ardnakelty, a young woman is found dead in the river. What looks like a tragedy quickly exposes generations-old grudges, land disputes, and the kind of small-town power plays where everyone knows who did what — and no one talks about it.
Retired Chicago detective Cal Hooper has built a life here now. He has people he cares about. But the cost of seeking truth in Ardnakelty is rising, and this time it threatens everything he’s come to love. NPR called this a contemporary classic. The New York Times said French is at the height of her powers. The Wall Street Journal described it as an elegy to both a lost girl and a vanishing way of life. If you loved God of the Woods by Liz Moore, this atmospheric, slow-burn mystery is your next obsession.
For fans of: Liz Moore, atmospheric literary mysteries, and books where the setting is as much a character as the people.

Thriller / Mystery
If you’re the kind of reader who devoured The Husband’s Secret or anything by Liane Moriarty, Sally Hepworth has been writing for you all along — and Mad Mabel might be her finest yet.
Meet Elsie Mabel Fitzpatrick: eighty-one years old, gloriously grumpy, fiercely independent, and hiding a past she’s kept buried for sixty years. Because once upon a headline, she was “Mad Mabel” — Australia’s youngest convicted murderer. When a neighbor turns up dead and the whispers start again, Elsie’s carefully guarded life threatens to unravel. Enter seven-year-old Persephone from across the road, armed with stickers and absolutely no concept of personal boundaries, who might be the unlikely friend Elsie never knew she needed.
Hepworth weaves past and present timelines with her signature dark humor and emotional gut punches. Readers are calling it heartbreaking, funny, and impossible to put down. Booklist gave it a starred review.
For fans of: Liane Moriarty, A Man Called Ove, unreliable narrators, and twists you don’t see coming.

Contemporary Fiction / Sports Novel
This one’s for the person in your house who’d rather be on the back nine. A recently laid-off golf reporter. A down-on-his-luck caddie. A magical set of clubs that once belonged to Jack Nicklaus. Gene Wojciechowski’s debut novel is a feel-good fable that’s been described as a cross between Tin Cup, The Natural, and Like Mike — and John Grisham called it wonderful.
Joe is a middle-aged golf reporter whose relationship with his son has been fractured for years. When his son gives him a set of garage-sale golf clubs as an olive branch, Joe discovers something unbelievable: he’s hitting 400 yards. Nobody hits 400 yards. What follows is a wild, heartfelt ride to the Masters, fueled by unlikely friendship, redemption, and the kind of insider golf knowledge that only comes from forty years on the tour.
Golf Digest called it an entertaining read. Publishers Weekly praised its colorful characters and hilarious one-liners. You don’t need to love golf to love this book — you just need to love a good underdog story.
For fans of: The Boys in the Boat, The Art of Racing in the Rain, and feel-good fiction with heart.

Historical Fiction / Beach Read
Coastal setting, 1950s glamour, three women with secrets, female friendship at the center — and it’s been compared to both Carrie Soto is Back and Big Little Lies. It fills the historical fiction gap on the list and fits the SOBAR aesthetic perfectly. The author also wrote Hotel Laguna and Montauk, so she knows how to write a place.
Here’s the quick pitch: It’s 1956 on Balboa Island, California. Milly’s marriage is falling apart. Sylvia’s husband is gambling away their life savings. And Adele is hiding a decades-old scandal that could destroy her. They meet through tennis and build a friendship that becomes the thing holding all three of them together. NYT bestselling authors Fiona Davis, Kristin Harmel, and Kristy Woodson Harvey all blurbed it. Steven Rowley said “no beach bag will be complete without this.”
For fans of: Elin Hilderbrand, The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo, and 1950s coastal nostalgia.

Nonfiction / Memoir
Every reading list needs the one book that makes you sit up straighter and pay attention. This is it.
In March 2020, Belle Burden was on Martha’s Vineyard with her family, navigating the early days of the pandemic the way so many of us did — making roast chicken, building fires, drinking whisky sours. Then her husband of twenty years announced, with no warning, that he was leaving. Overnight, her steady partner became a stranger.
What follows is Burden’s unflinching examination of her marriage, her own family history, and the expectations placed on women to be discreet and compliant in the face of betrayal. People magazine called it searing and probing. The Washington Post called it a hypnotic nail-biter. Graydon Carter said it’s gripping, heartbreaking, and a must-read for every wife and husband. If you’ve ever looked at someone you thought you knew and wondered what else you missed, this memoir will haunt you in the best possible way.
For fans of: Crying in H Mart, Wild, and memoirs that read like page-turning fiction.
Pack two or three. Leave one on the nightstand for when the sun goes down and the house gets quiet. Lend one to the person in the next beach chair. Dog-ear the pages. Let the covers get sandy. That’s what summer books are for.
See you over the bridge.
Every person on this island has an opinion about where to get coffee. And they will defend that opinion like it’s a property line dispute.
You drive over it every time you cross the causeway. But do you actually know which bay you’re looking at?
Eighteen miles. Six towns. One mainland gem. Not every stretch of sand was made for the same kind of soul — here’s how to find the one that fits yours.
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"Everyone who ever came to this island...
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